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I understand some people want a “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy about someone’s dating history, so they can continue to think they’re a special little flower. However, I expect everyone I meet at my age and their age to be either 1) currently dating and sleeping with someone, but not exclusively or in a committed relationship; 2) recently broke up from someone with whom they are dating/sleeping; or 3) if they’re not dating/sleeping with someone, it’s involuntary, either because they haven’t met someone recently, or are so devastated by a breakup that they haven’t been dating long enough to find someone new. 2 or 3 have just as much if not more baggage than 1, so I don’t get why everyone’s so hung up on guys who are in the 1 situation and are honest and upfront about it. Wouldn’t you rather know that someone is sleeping with someone else but has chosen not to be involved with them than to have someone who is pining away after someone he can’t have? I would, anyway.
You’re not someone special until you are…that is, this expectation of exclusivity from the time you start dating, or even the time you start sleeping together, seems pretty unreasonable to me. How can you even know whether you want to be exclusive until you’ve slept with someone and know if you’re sexually compatible? And if you’ve only known them a month, you’re supposed to automatically sever all other ties in your life before you know whether this one is even going to amount to something special (it’s two months shy of that magic 3-month mark from the other recent post). We’re back to chuckrock’s situation…I hope he rejoins us at some point, as I enjoyed his posts and hope all is going well with his ladyfriend.
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